Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Your Life made by the people

The things you regret most in your life, you tend to dwell on and the more you dwell on it, the more you allow it to control your life. And if you don't agree with me on this. Just listen to my side and then we can talk later. Well, it affects your mood correct? Well your mood affects you in how you act and the choices you make. Like whether or not you want to hang out with friends because you are too sad to be around anyone. Ha! Just killed two birds with one stone there =)
Peoples moods affect everyone around them. It's insane but it's true. If you are going to go into a room full of people pissed off....well, soon enough everyone else is going to start getting mad about things for no reason.
I believe in one of my earlier blogs, i talked about how our whole lives are based from the decisions we make and that everything we do is a decision. Where to go, what to eat or drink, how to act, how to feel. Well, i realize how in this blog i was contradicting myself and proving that my entire theory is wrong. Well I'm not, as crazy as that sounds. It may feel like you can't control what you think about but you can. It is all a state-of-mind. The way you think is by other people influencing your mind and it effects how you think and how you act and whatnot also. But it's also a decision to allow them to mold your mind that way. You can just be like, "Pshh, they are dumb. I'm not gonna listen to them." But what is funny about the human race is, we don't like to think for ourselves. We like to believe other peoples opinions and shape basically the rest of our lives.
Which now brings me back to my blog about trusting everything. You are basically trusting and allowing people to shape your life. Think about it for awhile....

2 comments:

  1. GAH! i know this exactly! you put it so well, and it really sucks, but such is life, what inspired the thought?

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  2. I'm not sure...it had just been crawling around in my mind for a couple days and I finally put it onto paper...well the internet haha

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